Been gone more days this year
Than I have been home
Trading friends
For trips to the coast
This hotel room feels
More-oh like a tomb

Been gone more days this year
Than I have been home
Trading friends
For trips to the coast
This hotel room feels
More-oh like a tomb

It's not gossip
If it's the truth
I'm sick of always writing songs
For you to slit your wrists to

So which is it?
"The boy who writes the songs
or "The boy who's in them?'
Who's the girl?
Is this truth or is he writing fiction?

Hand over my heart, gun to my head
I swear to God I'm through with this
I am the worst liar I know

It's not gossip
If it's the truth
I'm sick of always writing songs
For you to slit your wrists to

So which is it?
"The boy who writes the songs
or "The boy who's in them?'
Who's the girl?
Is this truth or is he writing fiction?

So which is it?
"The boy who writes the songs
or "The boy who's in them?'
Who's the girl?
Is this truth or is he writing fiction?

(So which is it?)
So which is it? Which is it?

Who's the girl?
Is this truth or is he writing fiction?
Which is it?
"The boy who writes the songs
or "The boy who's in them?'
Who's the girl?
Is this truth or is he writing fiction??

Been gone more days this year than I have been home


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    Eh... pretty bad as A demo, we'll see if it makes the cut for the CD...

    ADimeADexteron March 08, 2005   Link
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    This song seems to be the "little brother" to Brand New's song "I Will Play My Game..." the topic seems to be about the same, but FOB just lacked the lyrical style of BN.

    This song is damn catchy though.

    PunkRocks64on March 14, 2005   Link
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    not gonna be on the cd

    BrandNew1208on March 25, 2005   Link
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    great song

    patrick's voice fluxuation is always so catchy and fun

    passionfrenzyon April 03, 2005   Link
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    I haven't heard too many of the songs from the new CD, but reading the lyrics, I'm a little disappointed. It seems that there are so many allusions to other songs by other bands, most likely unintentional. It just seems like FOB lost its lyrical touch that made their last 2 releases so good.

    mcm1610on April 10, 2005   Link
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    maybe it's because you guys don't understand the song. the lyrics aren't terrible. i'd like to see you guys write this well.

    this song is about a guy whos in a band, and he's getting tired of it. being the guy who writes the songs that mean so damn much to kids, and the questions he's asked about them.

    HomelessHearton April 16, 2005   Link
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    Pete always manages to get a great line or two in each song.

    Hand over my heart, gun to my head.

    It's not gossip if it's the truth.

    idiotgirlon June 05, 2005   Link
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    amen. i completely agree with HomelessHeart. this song is so good. boo and yah

    elsaon June 29, 2005   Link
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    The other day I saw Fall Out Boy's members giving handjobs to the members of New Found Glory. Wow, that is gay. The singer for New Found Glory penetrated the bunghole of Fall Out Boy's drummer. Disgusting.

    AEnemaon June 30, 2005   Link
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    this song is pretty good i like it...! boo and yah lol:P pete is hott

    jessicaortiz20on July 18, 2005   Link

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