Dad, what was Nigel supposed to do with your body?
A life that I will never understand
Whose false teeth were gently pushed back into your mouth by your daughter's husband
What am I supposed to do with this?
I feel like I am not nice because sometimes
It is hard for me to think something happy about you
Except for that dad, I love you and I will always, always miss you
Pull my finger


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    I think the "pull my finger" line is this sort of random and absurd thing you say when things just become unbearably bleak. This sense of saying something, anything, to lighten the cirucmstances even though it makes no sense at all... just anything to stop you from losing it.

    aangeleneon November 08, 2008   Link
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    written after the death of jamie's father

    boo radleyon October 13, 2004   Link
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    I think it's about him not being sure about his feelings towards his dad and suddenly realizing his relationship to him wasn't too great. I think he just doesn't like not having his father around, even though he might not have been fond of him while he was alive.

    He's deciding that he does love his father a lot and will miss him a lot, but the things that never went well in his life are still lingering in his mind.

    pixelatronon March 07, 2005   Link
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    i heard he cant do this song live because it "foreshadowed his fathers suicide" and thats a quote from an interview

    12345sixsixsickon August 09, 2005   Link
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    xiu xiu freaks me out. but i always listen to them. their music is so haunting, and when i'm done listening to them i feel like i need to take a shower.

    Good shit tho. very good. the subject matter of his songs are always just so fucked up.

    The_Variableon January 31, 2006   Link
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    did he write this before or after his father committed suicide?

    ohpioneeron February 27, 2006   Link
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    I'm intrigued by the final line 'Pull my finger'. Is this a sardonic joke to finish off what is a very dark album? Maybe a playfulness that his relationship with his father lacked. Anybody any ideas?

    aggiedoon September 14, 2006   Link
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    I always thought the "Pull my finger" meant him and his dad used to joke around a lot.

    And isn't it "what was Neil" and not Nigel?

    Clap Your Handson September 21, 2006   Link
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    Yeah, it is 'Neil' and not 'Nigel' and if I could work out how to change it, I would.

    I'm still not sure if the 'Pull my finger' line is him missing the fun he had with his dad, or him lamenting on the fun they never had.

    aggiedoon September 22, 2006   Link
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    This song always makes me cry.

    "And I will always, always miss you."

    I think it's the second always that sets me over.

    robosexualon October 30, 2008   Link

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