So, it's how the story goes.
And we come to the scene where I'm holding you close.
She moves, moves like a thin dulling blade
Cuts, all the words that I said.
The only difference is,
The only difference is,
The truth,
The truth is I miss you.

Cry on demand.
How'd you learn to?
Cry on demand.
Teach me if you want to.
Though you don't have to.
I just close my eyes and think of you.

Real. Real like a plastic bouquet.
That thrives on the smoke from an old fireplace.
And dies every night with her face on the news.
Nobody cries, they just smoke and stare and their shoes.
The only difference is,
The only difference is,
Nobody can cry,
It's hard to do.
For most folks, without a reason why.

Cry on demand.
How'd you learn to?
Cry on demand.
Why would you want to?
Just close your eyes and think of me.
I take back everything I said.
She can't hurt me, and I can't hurt you.
It's like were already dead.
Cry on demand.
Why would you want to?
Cry on demand.
Teach me if you want to.
Though you don't have to.
I just close my eyes and think of you.


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Cry on Demand Lyrics as written by Ryan Adams

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    "And she dies every night with her face on the news. Nobody cries, they just smoke and stare and their shoes"

    I think Ryan's inspiration for this song, like most off of Demolition, was his girlfriend, Carrie Hamilton, who died of cancer in 2002. When she died, it was on the news and that is where the above quoted lyric comes from, she died everytime he saw it on the news, but nobody else watching the news cried. The rest of the song I think is just about her ability to act and literally cry on demand.

    RyDogg66on April 06, 2005   Link

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