Passed the road to your house
That you never called home
Where they turned out your lights
Though they say you'll never know

I remember running through the wet grass
Falling a step behind
Both of us never tiring
Desperately wanting

When they pumped out your guts
And filled you full of those pills
You were never quite right
Deserving all the chills

They say the worst is over
Kicked it over and ran
Then they ask what went wrong
When they turn you on again
They turn you on again

I remember running through the wet grass
Falling a step behind
Both of us never tiring
Desperately wanting

Kick them right in the face
Make them wish they weren't born
And if they bring up your name
Well they'll say you won the war

Baby burst in the world
Never given a chance
Then they ask what went wrong
When you never had it right
Well, you never had it right

Oh the letters have dropped off
Though they say you got them all
I finally figured out some things you'll never know

Take back your life
Let me inside
We'll find the door
If you care, if you care to anymore

I remember running through the wet grass
and falling a step behind
Both of us never tiring
Desperately wanting


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    Maybe it's just me, but I tend to take the words in the song and use them to form a context for a song. I do the same with books, comic books, films, TV. etc. I don't care what the writers say about a song outside the song.

    I don't see any indication in this song that it has anything to do with a fraternity or pledging a fraternity. To state that this song has to do with a silly frat initiation is dumb.

    It's clear in the lyrics what the song is about:

    Two friends -- one raised well with good parents, the other, after he/she "burst in the world, never given a chance," raised poorly by awful parents.

    The friend raised well is trying to save his/her friend raised poorly and who messed up their life.

    "They" are the physicians trying to help the second kid after a suicide attempt.

    There's more to it, but it has absolutely nothing to do with pledging a frat or the initiation.

    HellBlazerRaiseron May 07, 2013   Link

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