Looking out for love
In the night so still
Oh, I'll build you a kingdom
In that house on the hill

Lookin' out for love
Big, big love

You said that you love me
And that you always will
Oh, you begged me to keep you
In that house on the hill

Lookin' out for love
Big, big love

I wake up
Alone with it all
I wake up
But only to fall

Lookin' out for love
Big, big love
Just lookin' out for love
Big, big love


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Big Love Lyrics as written by Lindsey Buckingham

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    General Comment

    A guy uses his wealth, time and energy to give everything to create a life for him and his partner. At first she loves it but then the relationship breaks down. He is embittered by this because he gave her everything and still she walks. He is lonlely and wants someone else to replace her. He has the need to go to extremes. It wants big love.

    GaffaUKon February 25, 2007   Link
  • +3
    General Comment

    n/a

    [Edit: n/a]
    canuckgirl105on April 14, 2012   Link
  • +2
    General Comment

    Its a great song - one of my favs - but demented too. I remember reading years ago (I think in Rolling Stone) about the bit where he wakes with it all, is actually him waking up with a hard on. He is alone of course and full of lust. I think this makes sense considering Tusk was a slang for the male member.

    penguinbloozon February 27, 2007   Link
  • +2
    My Interpretation

    Buckingham's not singing about looking for love but looking out for love in order to protect himself against it.

    "Oh you begged me to keep you. In that house on the hill" is point at which someone falls in love with him but he doesn't want it.

    He's been taking to bad place by being in love previously and isn't ready to be hurt by that feeling again.

    leangoon January 30, 2013   Link
  • +1
    General Comment

    LIVE VERSION KICKS RECORDED VERSIONS ASS!!!!!

    Buckingham is a God. He doesn't get enough credit for his skill. Self-taught and can't read music.

    burntfireon March 13, 2005   Link
  • +1
    General Comment

    ^I'm sorry. I can't agree with that. This was written 10 years after Rumors. Not EVERYTHING they wrote were songs about their failed relationship. Also, the female "love grunts" in the original recording were not done by stevie, they were also done by lindsey. He sped up the tape for that...

    sumwhatfunnyon March 07, 2006   Link
  • +1
    General Comment

    The video for this song is also great - it's one of the most visually striking ever done, IMO.

    joea64on November 05, 2006   Link
  • +1
    General Comment

    This songs has so much energy which is accentuated by Lindsay's fabulous guitar works & electronically modulated grunts & moans . And yes the video is spectacular !!

    baitnswitchon January 08, 2007   Link
  • +1
    General Comment

    I remember when I was 6 or 7 and in the car with my dad, stepmum and stepsisters and my dad had this playing. At the time I had a female best friend called Charlotte I believe and I remember my stepsisters kept saying the background grumps were me and Charlotte going at it.

    It took me 13 years to find out the name of the song and I love it.

    Anybody else think it may be a good one to have in the background while going at it?

    I need to learn this on guitar and if it's true about Buckingham unable to read music then WOW!!

    Also: Though many assumed the female "ahh" to be Stevie Nicks, it was actually Lindsey Buckingham performing both, created by way of his voice being sampled and altered in the studio to mimic that of a woman. (From Wiki)

    Such a great song.

    peterk5699on January 05, 2009   Link
  • +1
    General Comment

    for me... the meaning of the song is "PASSION" Stunning vocal performance from LB, studio as well as live

    Nic777on August 15, 2012   Link

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