This is a hauntingly beautiful song about introspection, specifically about looking back at a relationship that started bad and ended so poorly, that the narrator wants to go back to the very beginning and tell himself to not even travel down that road. I believe that the relationship started poorly because of the lines:
"Take me back to the night we met:When the night was full of terrors: And your eyes were filled with tears: When you had not touched me yet"
So, the first night was not a great start, but the narrator pursued the relationship and eventually both overcame the rough start to fall in love with each other:
"I had all and then most of you"
Like many relationships that turn sour, it was not a quick decline, but a gradual one where the narrator and their partner fall out of love and gradually grow apart
"Some and now none of you"
Losing someone who was once everything in your world, who you could confide in, tell your secrets to, share all the most intimate parts of your life, to being strangers with that person is probably one of the most painful experiences a person can go through. So Painful, the narrator wants to go back in time and tell himself to not even pursue the relationship.
This was the perfect song for "13 Reasons Why"
Wake up this mornin it's a dreary day
I think I'll stay inside
Cause I been down I can't help thinkin about the way
You always left your shoes untied
It's funny how all those little things you did
Stand out clearest in my mind
The way you always mixed the darks in with the lights
You almost never pressed rewind
But you were all I ever needed
I thought I had done all that I could
Girl, with all the pain you brought me
In the end you did me good
So I'm hopin that we
Can forget to remember
Those hurtful words we said
That cold night last December
That maybe we could be friends
Maybe we could be friends
Starin at the wall there's only empty space
But all our pictures use to hang
I turn on the radio and hey what do you know
I hear that song you always sang
You were all I ever needed
Thought I had done all that I could
Girl, with all the pain you brought me
In the end you did me good
So I'm hopin that we
Can forget to remember
Those hurtful words we said
That cold night last December
When maybe we could be friends
Maybe we could be friends
But you were all I ever needed
I thought I had done all that I could
Girl, with all the pain you brought me
Still in the end you did me good
And I'm hopin that we
Can forget to remember
Those hurtful words we said
That cold night last December
And maybe we could be friends
If it's all right I'd like to come over
And see how you have been
If you would like I was thinkin
Maybe we could start again
Maybe we could start again
I think I'll stay inside
Cause I been down I can't help thinkin about the way
You always left your shoes untied
It's funny how all those little things you did
Stand out clearest in my mind
The way you always mixed the darks in with the lights
You almost never pressed rewind
But you were all I ever needed
I thought I had done all that I could
Girl, with all the pain you brought me
In the end you did me good
So I'm hopin that we
Can forget to remember
Those hurtful words we said
That cold night last December
That maybe we could be friends
Maybe we could be friends
Starin at the wall there's only empty space
But all our pictures use to hang
I turn on the radio and hey what do you know
I hear that song you always sang
You were all I ever needed
Thought I had done all that I could
Girl, with all the pain you brought me
In the end you did me good
So I'm hopin that we
Can forget to remember
Those hurtful words we said
That cold night last December
When maybe we could be friends
Maybe we could be friends
But you were all I ever needed
I thought I had done all that I could
Girl, with all the pain you brought me
Still in the end you did me good
And I'm hopin that we
Can forget to remember
Those hurtful words we said
That cold night last December
And maybe we could be friends
If it's all right I'd like to come over
And see how you have been
If you would like I was thinkin
Maybe we could start again
Maybe we could start again
Lyrics submitted by utsoccer22
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